That is the area where it can get a little frustrating. My Scorpio man and I have been together for 6 yrs. On the topic of wellness, you could both use a check in with a doctor or counselor. wtf is wrong w/you guys that you cant see how much you need to grow/change for the betterment of you and those around you, you work hard to protect us from others, but WHO PROTECTS US FROM YOU & your vindictive childish ways of payback?? i went through his phn b/c i was curious if this PERFECT ACTING PERSON WAS REALLY.. However, everything does not need to be criticized. But he's a scorpio man who will at times be more than any other dating a cancer, movies ever. The times to be strong, the times to be soft, the times to emote or stay silent, a dancedelicate and beautiful. because when I made that move, it was such a relief for me a weight no longer there and its like I could breathe again? you guys are good at taking care of others true, but in anyway that is NONEMOTIONAL. He is very loyal and faithful to the woman he loves. Now i am feeling lost and hurt. Being methodical in nature, a Virgo zodiac male and an untamed Scorpio female seem to a non-compatible pair. We only know we can trust ourselves, we back into a corner and scheme a way out of being trapped by someone we are hurt by. When he is ready to let something go.. then he lets it go completely. I think the main reason is communication. Virgo man-Scorpio woman is the most intriguing couple of all zodiac signs. Not I scorpio male love you because of your Virgo past. He can effortlessly explore a situation and can be pretty critical regarding it, if needed. I let her know upfront that it was I who used to give her blank calls occasionally. i have a scorp asc I read them easily too easy to read for me this scorp!> very emotional, great in bed, extremely jealous, and i have to agree one of my experience with one was phisical the guy wanted to choked me, he even showed me his fist once!. She should be more flexible so that the Scorpio man does not feel somewhat left out. Both our parents like us to end up together. But she says she loves Nik. I definitely faked a reason to take a walk to the drinking fountain in order to get a look at this one. I wasnt initially going to let her back into my life so easily, but after some soul searching of which I still have so much more to do I realize that if I miss her, or any of my friends, I should probably be more open to them. I am a virgo woman who was with a Scorpio man. Scorpio me.whos been cheated on thrice by a Virgo woman not very confident anymore. Characteristics of a Taurus Woman. After leaving him, my scorpio man and I started hanging out more and Id think back and wonder why I ever left thins man in the first place. Youll find your soul mate and her sign wont matter because youll have her heart. lol but at the end of the day..we give eachother so much happiness. He quiets the chaos and the entire world slips away and burns brighter at the same time. I may not be the smartest person in the world and yes i know that i am young and that i still have a long life ahead of me but it just got to me that all you guys and judge someone so cruelly on the day that they were born or just because you got a bad one .. No one said that you had to put yourself through those things with the scorpio male.. that was your own fault for sticking around, but you dont half to sit there and assume that all scorpio males are bad people NOT ALL OF THEM ARE.. My man is the best man in the entire world to me and i refuse to let anyone get in our way and try and make me feel different. She is ambitious and can become very stubborn when it comes to getting what she wants in the way she wants it. Sometimes we use aggression to mask our insecurities, thats part of the perfectionist in us. II felt as if I was spanked in the face.. That was in the middle of the night theres no way for me to walk out and go home.. . Then after some time he stopped talking, i asked him whats wrong, he just said some family problem is going on. hi A less refined scorpio will not understand this an will be his or her own gravedigger with a relationship with a Virgo. So bear with me here.. , I, as a Virgo, tend to shy away from men who are overtly showering with their affection It sucks for me because that sort of attention sort of repels me, makes me run in the other direction if its what Id consider un-called for or unexpected.. Not part of our divine plan since it isnt something we (ourselves) are puttin out there but instead its comin from an outside source. But, if he is not, Ive learned something about love and what it is that I want in my life. Just my thoughts on this matter but things that have come to mind when reflecting on what has been said. He takes pleasure in spoiling me by cooking for me and buying me little things here and there. Virgo. He would abandon me and our relationship for days and disappear without a word. I've dealt with a Scorpio man and Scorpio woman (masculine of center). Ciao. Good luck. A Scorpio man's ability to become cold and withdrawn in a fight is at odds with a Virgo woman's preference to hash things out. He helps her to understand that everyone has imperfections and one needs to love one another with those imperfections, and not for what other wants someone to become. But she's no pushover. Ive had a therapist for 7 years whom I talk to every week, to evolve myself as a man. It just seems unfair. Im great with strategy and organization its why as Virgos most of us are empaths and great in management, customer service, teaching, healing and 100 other things I could name. He stopped putting effort in our relationship, i was the one who contacted him all the time, then he said that he is sorry that he was not able to give time to me. And we all know that idealism tends to bring about disappointment when not fulfilled. We are passionate men, very much extreme, always wanting to be more than what is expected or needed by the woman who we are clear loves us. From the start it was ruined beacause he needed more! I havent heard from him since I feel so hurt and used. Their intuitive understanding of one another and loyal support is their strongest link. I just read all the comments posted here, and I must say, they are all very interesting. I always seem like a scorpio man looking for the scorpio women. Mary-Anne, wow.. What a bastard! Scorpio guysyou want a Virgo girl? Personality that draw many scorps into drugs!. And, when I hold him, and he holds me, between all his other commitments, there is peace and he can rest, and we are in a place all of our own. I had a rotten one, and most of my girlfriends have too! Im very loyal. They cant just get the hint when Im not interested, even when I say so or make it very obvious through my actions. But then again the other day 3 days ago, he told me I should stop visiting him because the landlord doesnt want any visitors and we got caught I was staying there at night sleeping. & he distanced himself, it is not our nature to CHASE or beg to be treated as we should be or as you have been! i am a virgo women who has just started dating a virgo man, the moment i saw him my body gravitates towards him. I was very taken aback by this revelation, and to some extent it left me feeling very uncomfortable with the friendship, to the point where I decided early this year that I must tell him I have no intimate feelings for him. His shit dont smell like roses!!! we have 2 children and i am deeply in love with him. You can be sure that Ill be back for more, im inlove right now to a scorpio man.. We get along very much.. we talked alot of things, love and life.. i loved the characteristic of a scorpio. Best to you all :-). The rift will start which makes scorpio appear dark and distant all he wants is his virgo woman to show warmth intimacy passion and to listen But to do this. she gave you space, space you obviously needed! Both are water signs so the compatibility meter is high. Hang in there, and dont let one experience ruin a chance at happiness. Women love to talk about the problem and try to fix it and men love to analyze it first then talk about it. My question is would he ever live a Taurus . ; The symbol for Virgo is a virgin, or a woman, representing fertility and wisdom. to be so in-tune, yall are cluless at best! I try to be, but as any Scorpio being truthful about themselves will tell you we have a lot of emotions bubbling around inside, many of which are hard to pinpoint which means next to impossible to understand. Talking about the reproductive phase. very hot headed, i abhore unfairness & scorps are very unfair. I find this article to be very accurate. Wow.. They're considered one of the best, if not the best men for a Virgo female. Beneath the soft voice of Scorpio man lays his subtle strategies to enhance his career and personal life. Go back and read my and scorpio2k14 posts- youll find some answers there. It's getting hot in here. I can only speak about the Extroverts as I have several friends who are Extroverted Scorps looking to evlove themselves out there Everything in this post is my opinion and I am in no way trying to suggest that Im stating facts. She just likes me..alot and thats fine. Remember for a virgo Nd a Scorpio..to work..there has to BE TRUST & COMMUNICATION. everything went well and the next morning things were still on track we even spent most of the following day together getting to know each other. its unreal. Of all the pairings in the zodiac, Virgo and Scorpio may just make one of the most unexpectedly compatible duos. Hes a extremely protective of me and while I enjoy this sometimes it bothers me because hell try to protect me to the point of babying me, in which case I have to remind him that Im a grown up! He said the he loves me and i was falling for him hard. i dont care if he leaves, ive been praying for an out if thats what God wants to happen, let it happen, i cant understand ths man and im tired of trying to be perfect! They like to have their cake and eat it too.. I am slowly getting there and finding peace with the loss, I hope you have also. Also, he always embarrassed me in front of Aries by making me look stupid when me and Aries dated. The Virgo woman should be willing to give it a try. he can be so sensitive and yet such an insensitive brute at the same time. Like as toddler. As long as she knows what im feelin. I never caught him cheating but i accused him and he never denied it. Dont give up on them in total because of your experience. #13. Yes Im a pisces with aries qualities too. Im a virgo girl and Ive been with my scorpio guy for about 4 months. The Virgo just seems bemused and unable to get beyond it. Sex for this man is an . They joke and lie! Definitely lucked out this time around . As a Scorpio male this is something known almost by second nature. But im not going to give up on all Virgos because of her. what i can say bout the article is, the characterististics being described about both sides are true. how would you like that? We been together for almost a year. we are not mind readers or psychics either! Dont get me wrong Im not perfect but I work on my flaws and imperfections everyday through prayer and meditation on Gods word. If you need gifts see above on how to get them and what reactions will allow us to lovingly provide them. Very impressed! Let this be known they wont give you anything unless they feel youve earned it! And what of what loyalty she fkn gets me anytime I turn my back them wont talk about it and then makes it fault like well you shouldnt have been so nice to me then maybe I wouldnt have cheated bs, They always turn it back on you Im a Scorpio she a Virgo. Both of them work hard at making the relationship work, especially Virgo and that is truly cherished and appreciated by Scorpio. In my intense nothing was good enough my scorpio love my scorpio caring my scorpio nurturing my scorpio non judgmental ways. I am a virgo women who have been with a scorpio man for 17 years. Wow Mary-Anne, one word for you REVENGE!!!!! No matter how critical I was! Introverted Non-Evolving- (unwilling to believe he is wrong and doesnt care to hear it). Because we can both be quite secretive (for different reasons) we need to make an effort to communicate what we are thinking and feeling. I just hope all of you out there with negative experiences know that there are two types of Scorpios: unevolved, and evolved. Because of that I am happy to say that I am benefitting and reaping the rewards of the person hes become. he is all of what has been said above, the good & the bad. So please bless her and let me rest in peace. I would recommend dating an earth sign. i am so disgusted & hurt, i have been here for 2 years, made my mistakes & begged forgiveness, which even tilthis day im not sure if i received! Virgo 's ruling planet is Mars, the planet of wisdom and communication. Virgos..STOP Expecting overnight progress, it will happen in due time& if you see your Scorpio trying..acknowledge him. We are the breed that LOVES to lead and loves to serve, it is a dicotomy we struggle with and a constant push/pull. Its intense and addicting. I still love him and dont know how to get over him. we have been on a few dates, and the atmosphere is just so intense with so much passion i feel like i cant breathe! A Scorpio man and Virgo woman experience love and romance in different ways. Why cant they just tell you its over? I never have been out with a Virgo women. The Scorpio woman should limit her passionate and not overwhelm him while trying new things as per Virgo man and Scorpio woman love compatibility. But ours lasted for 6 years. The best thing for us to do is not argue because its never really anything huge to be arguing about. You were smart to put your foot down, because its what Scorpios need in order to understand the people theyre dealing with. I also notice he seems to do things to get me pissed off, rude or distant things that he knows will bug me, like walking waaaayyyy ahead of me when we go on a hike together. The problem im having is that the timing for us isnt really working out and im starting to lose hope. The Scorpio man desires to go out more often, play sports and make risky bets in 2022. Now, recently,I have found myself falling hard for a Virgo female. I just really hate when we argue. If a virgo woman thinks she is perfect and doesnt listen to scorpio man he will stop attempting to communicate This makes virgo woman suspicious and virgo and scorpio paranoia kick in scorpio / virgo together may have trust issues in turn the male scorpio will question virgos loyalties . Thats why they came up with the term man cave. We men need it. I cant say that she will come back to you and that you should wait. Despite some challenges, this relationship can be fulfilling and successful with effort and compromise from both partners. In contrast, the Scorpios will have consistently transformed their values through their emotional experiences in life. Im a 28 year old Scorpio man. Dont ever get haughty or think you can manipulate that guy, hes born to fight oppression and youve started a silent war already with your tone of voice and body language. He is smart, outgoing , loyal , protective and does almost anything i ask him to do with a little push. These failed relationships on here have been the Scorpios fault only. A Scorpio man and a Virgo woman combination is an excellent zodiac match. @jackieoFucking true. 12 Virgo man is under the influence of Mercury, while Scorpio woman is under the influence of Mars and Pluto. Im learning the importance of communicating how I feel instead of shutting down and putting up a wall like I use to. I just like being judged before anyone knows me especially just because of the date i was born. I scorpio male love cherish yearn desire and want back my Virgo female back in my scorpio arms. So, I lost a mother, and a best friend. Learn some f**king humility, get over yourself, and go SLOW! Compliment him. Sassy quotes that you to lure the every day and there is ruled by fire in love. I love how he makes me feel. I personally think that everyone has to look into themselves evolve. Blaming others for every mistake is just a childish way of getting out of it. Just the other day she Virgo told me not to communicate with her Virgo anymore. Intimacy brings out the deep sensuality and intense sex drive of Scorpio, while Virgo prefers quality over quantity. lately I FEEL i can handle and manuver them easily!. Baby, something has gone south and youre very hurt, this is making things awkward, please work through it. It goes deeper and touches something that is transformational. This comment is for comment #11 for the story Anthony shared. Im only grateful he was still there for me when I came back. Then he wants to break up or give me the silent treatment for weeks. Scorpio Woman In Love. When we were apart, he stayed connected to my sister because she use to go to a local hang out where he would see her, and he was always trying to get back with me. it always depends on the individual, and there are always other astrological factors to consider, but this pairing has a better than average shot. Virgos if you have NO INTENTIONS whatsoever to devote yourself to your sexy obsessive scorpio then you should END it RIGHT THERE or prepare to suffer. New research shows 80% of scorpio woman dating a man and scorpio. As a Virgo woman, I can be very moody. RUN! Scorpio is the sign of death and rebirth, the mythic Phoenix rising from the ashes of destruction. He drives me crazy. There was instant chemistry between us when we first bumped into each other at a bus stop, I noticed him right away! I am also okay if everything goes well, but If that guy leaves her I just wont be able to withstand that, this thought wakes me up from the middle of my dream, well right now I am following her orders that we will not see each other or talk she thinks this makes me insane hahahaaaaa she is still like a kid, but I know she wont listen me so I am just waiting for her to get married properly or if needed I can always be back. Of all the Water signs, she is the one that represents the . SO, he walked out, walked on foot for an hour to get home.. II just let him do whatever he wanted then. he isnt engaged and its a ploy to keep people out of his business and he like me. They give an exciting glimpse to all the possibilities they share in their life and also have the power to realize a satisfying approach for their once seen dream. He was completely selfish, self absorbed, and would always make me feel like i didnt matter to him at all. Im a Scorpio man with a hopeless crush on an amazing Virgo women as well. If you had a bad experience with a Scropio once, and you meet another who feels right, trust your instinct. WHO HAS THIS MORE JEALOUSY CHARACTER? There were no female friends till she came around, and to have a woman comfortable and confident enough with herself to hang out with a group of guys well lets just say she definitely had my attention from that point on. I kept asking him that whats wrong, why are you behaving like this, but he just said that he will tell me. ZODIAC SIGN. The dark sides of us are easily kept at bay in the following ways Looking for a cancer man younger woman . With a relationship between my experience on the number one of relationships than. Whats a safe time to wait before contacting, even if just asking to catch up? Scorps start off great, thats how they get you..but then as you get to know them and fall in love, they reveal their dark side, no matter how much i loved him, i never trusted him, because he was capable of lying with a straight face and turning his back on me in a second, if i upset him. Then after some time he stopped talking, i asked him whats wrong, he just said some family problem is going on. I tried to hide how much I liked him only to get a pleasant surprise- he likes me too. Hardly. Visitor experiences and scorpio woman. RUN! remember this their are 3 women in the zodiacTHE rest are female animals and a thing. He is faithful, true and devoted and always provides everything that a woman of his life deserves. Scorpio man is a protector by nature and never allows his Virgo woman to face the world alone. for a full explanation on this check out Alison Armstrongs book, the Queens Code. wishing you the absolute best in love and relationships with good Scorps out there .. we are VERY intense and our depth is uncontrollably powerful when a woman is both in front of us and behind us (metaphorically), that means she leads at times with love and respect and follows at times with love and respect. we recently met and there was an instant attraction but we both shied away and silently suffered. If you dont show a scorpio the love/affection and time they deserve. It's one of those that changes your life forever type of relationships. Both signs have exceptional conversational skills, probably the best between two signs in the zodiac. But hes so FINE and the sex is AMAZING!!! (lol) I believe he knew deep down I loved him too. I'm a 37 male Scorpio in a long term relationship with a 37 female Virgo. But being flawed is part of what makes everyone beautiful! Okay as a friend but thats it. how was she to know if you did not tell her? Virgo maidens are ruled by mercurythey are perfectionists. Want something from us ready for this, men scorps who read this are going to shoot me Im so over joyed and I really think I going to fall for this guy cause his personality, humour, intelligence astound me. Not all scorpio men are bad, they have good intentions its just the way they express themselves and dont mean harm. . They are like a poetry in motion. No matter who they are they all the same. But if taken seriously and understood they can make up even the biggest of problems. Joseph, Im a Virgo myself, and I can tell you that were not always easy to get along with because of our critical and perfectionistic attitudes. If it helps, heres a free 2020 Forecast for VIRGO: https://youtu.be/y6YrwFPPrpM. As for I gave it all to our Almighty God, that we will continue love each other:). In the bedroom She comes first, we will go to the inner depths of the world to understand how we can do more.. for that smile, that amazing session for hours of lovemaking, that day together just relaxing, holding hands, picking out furniture, discussing our dreams and a family/life together cooking together.. you get the point right? Scorpio man and Virgo woman can make a great match because there are many hidden similarities in how these two signs approach to love and romance. I am currently speaking to a Scorpio man and I am a Virgo woman. But im not afraid to admit my faults and try to change them. Very unexpectedly, we were reintroduced and, honestly, Ive never looked back. All she virgo ever did was critique critized and ran from me scorpio. The Virgo finds in the Scorpio a way to calm down, not to be so nervous. Beautiful relationship. In the beginning, he was very affectionate and compassionate, but lately the romance seems to have fizzled. I forgave him,after that i thought everything will be fine but it was not. I spend thousands of dollars annually to talk with an amazing therapist who I trust, love and care for in a clinical sense. PLEASE LADY DONT WASTE YOUR TIME! I even notice that now he is finally listening and realizing when hes not being attentive. journey in standing and came to see her just for 5 mins., sometimes used to call her without saying anything just to hear her voice, though I never said I LOVE YOU we are so close I thought she already knows, She could share everything with me for her I changed my job and came to her city I proposed one fine day then she told me she is in love with another guy. But I cant hide that im scared that one day she will leave me for another man. This Sign Is Known For Its, Uh, Prowess. He will do whatever to satisfy Virgo because he is exactly knew what is inside Virgo not just because of the sex. I am a Virgo woman, and I have always gotten along very well with a Scorpio man as friends. Rich woman looking for older man & younger woman. i am a virgo in the truest since of the word, i have all of the good & bad qualitites of her too, mostly good!